The per-peer "Quantum resistance" flag was computed only when the relay or
ICE connection came up. When the KEM answer lands after the WireGuard
endpoint is configured (the controller answering a crossing responder offer,
the common case under lazy connections), the peer kept being reported as not
converged while the PSK was programmed and traffic flowed. Reproduced in 4 of
7 fresh lab runs.
Mark the peer in the status recorder once OnNewPSKReady has programmed the
PSK, and OR that mark into every relay/ICE status update under the recorder's
lock. The connection path reads the PQ state before configuring WireGuard and
writes the status afterwards, so without the mark its stale "false" would
clear the flag again. The mark is dropped with the peer, matching the PSK's
lifetime, and the update is best-effort: a peer missing from the recorder
never fails the PSK apply. Status-only change; PSK programming and strict
gating are unaffected.