The ownership check only ran when the account's own view of the cluster
came back empty, so an account holding any row for the host — its own
canonical proxy — skipped it entirely. A row another account left behind
under a non-canonical spelling was then never seen, and the pin the check
exists to refuse went through. That is the case worth catching, not the
one to skip: two accounts claiming one hostname is the ambiguity the
connect-time conflict check prevents going forward and cannot see for a
row written before addresses were canonicalized, and the endpoint pinned
here cannot be moved afterwards.
Ask ownership first, and narrow what counts as foreign while doing it.
The query treated a shared proxy as outside the account, which was
harmless while it ran only for a host the account had no view of — a
shared row would have given it one — but refuses the cluster most
accounts pin to once it runs first. Only a row owned by a different
account is foreign now, which is also what the name says.