Start's failure defer only called close(), which covers the wg interface,
firewall, rosenpass and port forwarding but leaves connMgr, srWatcher,
route/DNS/flow/state managers and the monitor goroutines running. A late
failure (e.g. the context-cancelled check after the signal stream) thus
leaked them.
Extract Stop's locked teardown into stopLocked (caller holds syncMsgMux,
does not wait on shutdownWg) and call it from both Stop and Start's defer.
The defer also cancels the run context first so goroutines started before
the failure unwind. Teardown order is unchanged.
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