enforceSingleExitNode took the RouteSelector lock three separate times
(IsDeselectAll, then DeselectRoutes, then SelectRoutes), so a concurrent
DeselectAllRoutes could interleave and be silently undone: SelectRoutes on
its deselectAll branch clears the flag and re-selects the preferred exit
node, overriding the user's "all off".
Move the whole reconciliation into a single locked RouteSelector method
(SetExclusiveExitNode) that checks deselectAll inside the critical section,
so a deselect-all either fully precedes the reconcile (left untouched) or
fully follows it (honoured). No interleaving is possible.
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