Removing SetDownloadOnly from the engine teardown also dropped the reset of
the forced-update flag. After netbird down the manager kept the last
management directive, so a release published while the client was stopped
could still trigger a forced install that management no longer asked for.
The same window existed between an engine teardown and the next reconnect
attempt, where ResetMode only ran at the start of the attempt.
Reset the mode in stopLocked instead, so the updater stays silent from the
moment the engine goes down until the first network map of the next
connection decides the mode again.