* [relay] evict foreign client cache on disconnect
When a foreign relay's TCP connection drops, the manager's
onServerDisconnected handler only triggered reconnect logic for the
home server; the disconnected foreign entry stayed in the relayClients
cache. Subsequent OpenConn calls reused the closed client until the
60-second cleanup tick evicted it, breaking peer connectivity through
that relay for up to a minute.
Evict the foreign entry from the cache on disconnect so the next
OpenConn dials a fresh client.
Also:
- Make the reconnect backoff cap configurable via WithMaxBackoffInterval
ManagerOption; the previous hard-coded 60s constant forced
TestAutoReconnect to sleep ~61s. Test now polls Ready() and finishes
in ~2s.
- Add NB_HOME_RELAY_SERVERS env var that overrides the relay URL list
received from management, so a peer can be pinned to a specific home
relay (used by the netbird-conn-lab Edge 4 reproducer).
* [client] treat empty NB_HOME_RELAY_SERVERS as unset
Returning (urls=[], ok=true) when the env var contained only separators or
whitespace caused callers to wipe the mgmt-provided relay list, leaving the
peer with no relays. Treat a parsed-empty result the same as an unset env.