tray: selectable exit nodes + push-based network list refresh

Make the tray Exit Node submenu selectable (mutually exclusive, sourced from
ListNetworks by NetID) instead of read-only.

Add networksRevision to the status snapshot, bumped by the route manager on
network-map and selection changes, so the tray and the React NetworksContext
re-fetch ListNetworks via the push stream instead of polling. The peer-status
route list only carries chosen routes, so a candidate exit node appearing or
disappearing would otherwise never reach the UI.

client/server/server.go

@@ -1242,6 +1242,7 @@ func (s *Server) buildStatusResponse(msg *proto.StatusRequest) (*proto.StatusRes
 		pbFullStatus := fullStatus.ToProto()
 		pbFullStatus.Events = s.statusRecorder.GetEventHistory()
 		pbFullStatus.SshServerState = s.getSSHServerState()
+		pbFullStatus.NetworksRevision = s.statusRecorder.GetNetworksRevision()
 		statusResponse.FullStatus = pbFullStatus
 	}