Make relay datagram fallback transport-agnostic via a dialer capability

shared/relay/client/dialer/capability.go

@@ -0,0 +1,18 @@
+package dialer
+
+// DatagramSized is implemented by dialers whose connections carry each write in
+// a single datagram, so a write can be rejected when it exceeds the path's
+// datagram budget (e.g. QUIC). Transports without this capability (e.g.
+// WebSocket over TCP) impose no per-write size limit, so the relay client can
+// fall back to them when a datagram-sized transport rejects a write as too
+// large. The capability is advertised per dialer rather than hardcoded, so a
+// new transport only needs to declare whether it is datagram-sized.
+type DatagramSized interface {
+	DatagramSized()
+}
+
+// IsDatagramSized reports whether d produces datagram-sized connections.
+func IsDatagramSized(d DialeFn) bool {
+	_, ok := d.(DatagramSized)
+	return ok
+}

shared/relay/client/dialer/quic/quic.go

@@ -24,6 +24,10 @@ func (d Dialer) Protocol() string {
 	return Network
 }
 
+// DatagramSized marks QUIC as a datagram-sized transport: relay traffic is
+// carried in QUIC DATAGRAM frames, which must fit a single packet.
+func (d Dialer) DatagramSized() {}
+
 func (d Dialer) Dial(ctx context.Context, address, serverName string) (net.Conn, error) {
 	quicURL, err := prepareURL(address)
 	if err != nil {