[management,client] Take the debug-bundle upload destination from management

The debug-bundle paths that upload without a human picking a destination
compiled the vendor endpoint in: the mobile clients and the desktop UI hold
`https://upload.debug.netbird.io/upload-url` as a constant, the CLI defaults its
flag to it, and the remote job falls back to it when nothing else is set. A
self-hosted deployment therefore shipped peer logs, routes, DNS and firewall
state to NetBird-run infrastructure without its operator ever configuring that,
and had no way to point those paths anywhere else. #7147 and #7153 gave the
remote job a per-job URL and an MDM override, but neither reaches the mobile,
UI or CLI paths, and both fail open when unset.

Publish the destination from the management server instead, on the channel that
already carries stun/turn/signal/relay/flow/metrics:

- `NetbirdConfig.debug.upload_url`, sourced from the new account setting
  `debug_bundle_upload_url` (REST + dashboard) and falling back to the new
  `DebugUpload.URL` in the management server config, which a self-hosted install
  can set once so a fresh account is not left on the vendor default. Both are
  validated as https-with-host where they are written; a change fans out to
  connected peers rather than waiting for the next login.
- One resolver on the client, `debug.ResolveUploadURL`, used by every path:
  MDM override > explicitly named URL > destination published by management >
  the NetBird service, but only for a peer enrolled with NetBird's cloud.
  Anything else fails closed with ErrNoUploadDestination and the bundle stays
  local, which is the behaviour change: a self-hosted deployment that names no
  upload service no longer uploads at all.
- The engine keeps the published value (`Engine.DebugUploadURL`) so the bundle
  paths, which run off the engine loop, do not have to read it back out of the
  opt-in sync-response store.
- The daemon request grows `upload`, so "upload to wherever this deployment
  says" is expressible; an empty `uploadURL` no longer has to mean "no upload".
  The privilege gate is unchanged and still applies only to a URL the local
  caller named — a destination published by management is the operator naming
  their own service.
- The desktop UI stops carrying a vendor URL of its own and sends the intent.

Reported privately as GHSA-hf99-43rj-h577.

client/proto/daemon.pb.go

@@ -2820,8 +2820,15 @@ type DebugBundleRequest struct {
 	// Unknown values are treated as "strict". Only meaningful with anonymize;
 	// "strict" implies it.
 	AnonymizeLevel string `protobuf:"bytes,8,opt,name=anonymizeLevel,proto3" json:"anonymizeLevel,omitempty"`
-	unknownFields  protoimpl.UnknownFields
-	sizeCache      protoimpl.SizeCache
+	// upload asks the daemon to upload the bundle. When uploadURL is empty the
+	// daemon resolves the destination itself: the one the management server
+	// publishes, or the service NetBird runs when the peer is enrolled with
+	// NetBird's cloud. A self-hosted deployment that publishes no destination
+	// gets no upload, so a bundle never leaves the operator's control sphere by
+	// default. uploadURL still overrides it, for a privileged caller.
+	Upload        bool `protobuf:"varint,9,opt,name=upload,proto3" json:"upload,omitempty"`
+	unknownFields protoimpl.UnknownFields
+	sizeCache     protoimpl.SizeCache
 }
 
 func (x *DebugBundleRequest) Reset() {
@@ -2903,6 +2910,13 @@ func (x *DebugBundleRequest) GetAnonymizeLevel() string {
 	return ""
 }
 
+func (x *DebugBundleRequest) GetUpload() bool {
+	if x != nil {
+		return x.Upload
+	}
+	return false
+}
+
 type DebugBundleResponse struct {
 	state               protoimpl.MessageState `protogen:"open.v1"`
 	Path                string                 `protobuf:"bytes,1,opt,name=path,proto3" json:"path,omitempty"`
@@ -7354,7 +7368,7 @@ const file_daemon_proto_rawDesc = "" +
 	"\x12translatedHostname\x18\x04 \x01(\tR\x12translatedHostname\x128\n" +
 	"\x0etranslatedPort\x18\x05 \x01(\v2\x10.daemon.PortInfoR\x0etranslatedPort\"G\n" +
 	"\x17ForwardingRulesResponse\x12,\n" +
-	"\x05rules\x18\x01 \x03(\v2\x16.daemon.ForwardingRuleR\x05rules\"\x84\x02\n" +
+	"\x05rules\x18\x01 \x03(\v2\x16.daemon.ForwardingRuleR\x05rules\"\x9c\x02\n" +
 	"\x12DebugBundleRequest\x12\x1c\n" +
 	"\tanonymize\x18\x01 \x01(\bR\tanonymize\x12\x1e\n" +
 	"\n" +
@@ -7366,7 +7380,8 @@ const file_daemon_proto_rawDesc = "" +
 	"cliVersion\x18\x06 \x01(\tR\n" +
 	"cliVersion\x12&\n" +
 	"\x0euploadInsecure\x18\a \x01(\bR\x0euploadInsecure\x12&\n" +
-	"\x0eanonymizeLevel\x18\b \x01(\tR\x0eanonymizeLevel\"}\n" +
+	"\x0eanonymizeLevel\x18\b \x01(\tR\x0eanonymizeLevel\x12\x16\n" +
+	"\x06upload\x18\t \x01(\bR\x06upload\"}\n" +
 	"\x13DebugBundleResponse\x12\x12\n" +
 	"\x04path\x18\x01 \x01(\tR\x04path\x12 \n" +
 	"\vuploadedKey\x18\x02 \x01(\tR\vuploadedKey\x120\n" +

client/proto/daemon.proto

@@ -553,6 +553,13 @@ message DebugBundleRequest {
   // Unknown values are treated as "strict". Only meaningful with anonymize;
   // "strict" implies it.
   string anonymizeLevel = 8;
+  // upload asks the daemon to upload the bundle. When uploadURL is empty the
+  // daemon resolves the destination itself: the one the management server
+  // publishes, or the service NetBird runs when the peer is enrolled with
+  // NetBird's cloud. A self-hosted deployment that publishes no destination
+  // gets no upload, so a bundle never leaves the operator's control sphere by
+  // default. uploadURL still overrides it, for a privileged caller.
+  bool upload = 9;
 }
 
 message DebugBundleResponse {