[proxy,management] Conform the Agent Network endpoint to the LLM gateway protocol (#7154)

[proxy,management] Conform the Agent Network endpoint to the LLM gateway protocol

Reviewed the proxy against Claude Code's published gateway contract. The
transport layer already held up; fourteen gaps sat one layer up, in the model
catalog and in the non-inference endpoints clients call.

Two of them cost money. The catalog carried no claude-opus-5 or
claude-sonnet-5, so an operator could not authorise the models coding agents
default to — those requests denied as not-routable, or priced at zero where a
catch-all carried them. And gateway records pin ParserID "openai" while the
same record serves /v1/messages, so Anthropic responses were read with the
OpenAI parser, which never looks at message_start where input tokens live:
input metered as roughly zero on every stream and cost was skipped entirely.

The rest fix requests refused for structural rather than policy reasons: model
discovery denied for every account with a model allowlist, token counting
denied on Bedrock and mis-parsed on Vertex, startup probes refused and written
into the access log at every session start, and denials rendered in a shape no
LLM client parses. Two changes are additive by design — the deny body keeps
every field it had and adds the vendor's error object alongside, and body-level
identity injection is now gated on the request's dialect so it stops sending
OpenAI-shape fields into Anthropic bodies that reject them.

The end-to-end work turned up one more: the discovery filter treated any slash
in a model id as a gateway prefix, which would have dropped every self-hosted
"Qwen/..." model from the picker.

e2e/agentnetwork/main_test.go

@@ -54,3 +54,19 @@ func run(m *testing.M) int {
 
 	return m.Run()
 }
+
+// waitBeforeRetry pauses between attempts of a polling loop and reports
+// whether the caller should keep going. A cancelled context ends the loop
+// where a plain sleep would keep retrying against it: every call fails
+// instantly once ctx is done, so the loop would spend its whole remaining
+// window sleeping between failures nobody is waiting for any more.
+func waitBeforeRetry(ctx context.Context, d time.Duration) bool {
+	timer := time.NewTimer(d)
+	defer timer.Stop()
+	select {
+	case <-ctx.Done():
+		return false
+	case <-timer.C:
+		return true
+	}
+}