[client] Use native windows sock opts to avoid routing loops (#4314)

- Move `util/grpc` and `util/net` to `client` so `internal` packages can be accessed
 - Add methods to return the next best interface after the NetBird interface.
- Use `IP_UNICAST_IF` sock opt to force the outgoing interface for the NetBird `net.Dialer` and `net.ListenerConfig` to avoid routing loops. The interface is picked by the new route lookup method.
- Some refactoring to avoid import cycles
- Old behavior is available through `NB_USE_LEGACY_ROUTING=true` env var

client/cmd/down.go

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ var downCmd = &cobra.Command{
 			return err
 		}
 
-		ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), time.Second*7)
+		ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), time.Second*20)
 		defer cancel()
 
 		conn, err := DialClientGRPCServer(ctx, daemonAddr)