refactor: Use ESM (#8358)

* wip

* wip

* fix

* clean up

* Update tsconfig.json

* Update activitypub.ts

* wip

packages/backend/src/misc/secure-rndstr.ts

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-import * as crypto from 'crypto';
+import * as crypto from 'node:crypto';
 
 const L_CHARS = '0123456789abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz';
 const LU_CHARS = '0123456789abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ';