fix(backend): memory leak in memory caches (#14363)

* encapsulate `MemoryKVCache<T>`

* remove infinity caches

* encapsulate other caches

* add missing awaits to internally synchronize caches

* implement pull-through caching

* tune cache lifetimes

* optimize cache GC by stopping early

* summarize changes in CHANGELOG.md

* Fix timeout comments

Co-authored-by: かっこかり <67428053+kakkokari-gtyih@users.noreply.github.com>

* add comments about awaiting the redis write

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Co-authored-by: かっこかり <67428053+kakkokari-gtyih@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/backend/src/core/AvatarDecorationService.ts

@@ -29,7 +29,7 @@ export class AvatarDecorationService implements OnApplicationShutdown {
 		private moderationLogService: ModerationLogService,
 		private globalEventService: GlobalEventService,
 	) {
-		this.cache = new MemorySingleCache<MiAvatarDecoration[]>(1000 * 60 * 30);
+		this.cache = new MemorySingleCache<MiAvatarDecoration[]>(1000 * 60 * 30); // 30s
 
 		this.redisForSub.on('message', this.onMessage);
 	}