refactor: migrate to typeorm 3.0 (#8443)

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* Update following.ts

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* Update resolve-user.ts

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packages/backend/src/server/api/endpoints/messaging/messages/read.ts

@@ -29,7 +29,7 @@ export const paramDef = {
 
 // eslint-disable-next-line import/no-default-export
 export default define(meta, paramDef, async (ps, user) => {
-	const message = await MessagingMessages.findOne(ps.messageId);
+	const message = await MessagingMessages.findOneBy({ id: ps.messageId });
 
 	if (message == null) {
 		throw new ApiError(meta.errors.noSuchMessage);