Add telemetry metrics and constants for improved observability

internal/telemetry/constants.go

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+package telemetry
+
+// Protocol labels (low-cardinality)
+const (
+	ProtocolTCP = "tcp"
+	ProtocolUDP = "udp"
+)
+
+// Reconnect reason bins (fixed, low-cardinality)
+const (
+	ReasonServerRequest  = "server_request"
+	ReasonTimeout        = "timeout"
+	ReasonPeerClose      = "peer_close"
+	ReasonNetworkChange  = "network_change"
+	ReasonAuthError      = "auth_error"
+	ReasonHandshakeError = "handshake_error"
+	ReasonConfigChange   = "config_change"
+	ReasonError          = "error"
+)